During my research, I stumbled on a great post by Marty Nemko, a Career Coach from California. Here are 3 great metaphors that I wanted to share because I believe it creates a different perspective on job hunting. I think the best metaphor is the last one:
When you contact someone and it proves useless, think of it as a library book that turned out not to be helpful. No emotion expended, no sense of rejection, you just put it back on the shelf and try another book.
I quit my previous job before my current job and I can understand the stress and pressure of looking for a job. I had to constantly self motivated myself because when we don't receive feedback, it can be very depressing. I think half of the job hunt is mental and Marty's metaphor is a fresh perspective that can help you stay positive. It also helps at relieving pressure. If this call or interview doesn't work, that's fine, there are plenty of others. I don't need to waste any emotions or energy.
Good luck!
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